Friday, August 20, 2021

What You Can Do

August, thus far, has been pretty busy, even if I do say so myself.  People always tell me "you're so busy."  Just this week, a regular "picker" I buy from said to me "o.k. let's just meet next week then (wink, wink), you're the busiest person I know."  

I don't know why, but for some reason, when I hear this it makes me mad.  Maybe mad isn't right word, how about uncomfortable.  It makes me uncomfortable to hear that.  I mean, we all are busy, life is busy.  I think, because I blog, am self-employed and everything I do is online or visable, it makes me look like I'm busy.  I'm just trying to live my best life and I spent plenty of days doing "nothing" too.  

Truthfully, most days I have to motivate myself to even get going.  My friend, Renee, sent me a picture off her motivational calendar a while back.  I have repeated this to myself almost daily.  "Start with what you CAN do."  I would add, "doing what you CAN do, leads to motivation to what you feel you CAN'T."  

August has had my not being here at the farm much.  So, yesterday I woke to this:  my kitchen was a mess, my garden full of oversized, over ripe, counters full of veggies to process, raised beds in need of weeding, stove and sink full of hand wash kettles, I just wanted to go back to bed.  Then I said "Dicky Bird, start with what you can do!  

Now, truthfully, I thought I only had yesterday to do ALL of this.  But, with something uncontrollable (weather) to us, we won't be able to set up outside at a show we were looking forward to doing.  I do have a tent, but it's the only tent I have left and I can't risk thunderstorm winds.  It may not happen, but we also don't want our all our stuff getting wet.  We've been there done that before.   Anyway, now I have a "free" 2 days and I woke to a clean kitchen, weeded raised bed, bags of processed veggies in the freezer, from working on what I CAN do yesterday.  Now, even though I CAN'T sell at the show, I am going to work on what I CAN sell here. 

So, the next time you feel overwhelmed from being "too busy," maybe a bit anxious from your "to do list," think on this little saying:  "start with what you can do" and it really motivates you!

Here are a few photos of my August so far, since I can't do another post without a photo...teehee...


I will start with the pretty.   I LOVE the Zinnas this year!

   

I left a few greenhouse "experiments" to grow inside and I am really pleased at how this is going.  I want to try to figure a way to extend my growing season.  


Nothing sweeter - warm cherry tomatoes right out of garden.  

Our most recent estate we are selling - online for now.  



Our last estate sale, we did an in person live sale last weekend.  We had already sold alot online, but they were still using and living in the house until last Wednesday.  Did I mention, we only really had Thursday to set up?  (speaking of busy...ahahah).  But these are the before.....and now the after.....



Praise God, we got rid of it for our clients.  They wanted to have it disappear and we made that happen.  I had another dealer call me and ask "how are your sales?  I see you had to 'give' it all way, your sales must have been bad, wasn't anyone buying?"  Oh boy.....I said "nope, sales were awesome!  In fact, our clients were extremely happy with what we did for them, buy giving it away to those who could use it and their not having to get a dumpster."  Anyway...back to what I can do....move on from stupid comments....

Blessings from Ringle, Wisconsin.  

8 comments:

  1. I think when people say boy you are busy, what they really mean is I envy you because I don't have much going on! you have had a lot of work that is for sure I wish I were closer to get into one of your sales not that I need anything and should be doing the same thing ugg
    Cathy

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    1. Maybe that is it. I want to do what I can do, while I can do it. My mom said this when we tried to get her to slow down from doing "too much" and she would say that line. Later in life she had a stroke and was wheelchair bound and I said to her...."I'm sure glad you did all that running around, while you could."

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  2. Great advise. Will have to remember that. I had a client today tell me I must really be busy because I did not answer her call. Truth is, I dont answer any of my calls because my office phone will tell my computer if someone leaves me a voice message on my phone. So I just do that and listen to them once I get the message. Its a lot easier for me. Hope you have a great weekend!

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    1. Oh, I'm sure you hear this too! It may come with the fact that we like to do lots of different things, only, you complete them - ahahaha. Have a great weekend.

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  3. Yikes...that sounds like more than a "stupid" comment...it sounds...and IS...totally rude... Sounds like someone may just have a tinge of "green" going on?? Looks like an interesting home. Your garden goodes look fantastic. I so love the glads....We always had them growing up and I did plant them several years when I was first here...but I am not much good at lifting bulbs in the fall...so, no glads for me...which I regret every time I see someone else's. Yes, some days (most??) the best I can do is say "Start"....do SOMETHING....it's like a gear that needs a bit of greasing to get rolling me thinks. Doesn't always work, but sometimes it does...and those days are good days. ~Robin~

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    1. Robin, thanks! You get it, rude! I don't know why, it could be because I usually tell...ahaha...but, people ask me tons of questions. I have started to tell people, I can only answer 1 question, think before you ask...ahahah. My siblings and other family drive me nuts with all the questions. I am not the best at digging up the bulbs either, that is why I only did 8 and they are all in one corner. Nice to share with you. I have to get you your pillows.

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  4. PS....do you know something I don't about the weather???

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    1. The show is north of me an hour. I just looked at radar, was yellow and orange where sale is.

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